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Rafael M.T.Therapist, Psychotherapist
Category: Relationship
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I am in a relationship with a man who is not divorced yet .

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I am in a relationship with a man who is not divorced yet . He did not ruin his daughters wedding and said immediately after the wedding he would start proceedings. His wife has now become ill and is in hospital where he feels he should attend. His wife is also in a relationship. Am I second best
Submitted: 3 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Rafael M.T.Therapist replied 3 years ago.

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Hello, I am Rafael. Thanks for asking your question - I'm here to support you. (Information posted here is not private or confidential but public).

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

I am sorry to know about this frustrating situation.

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Could you please what you mean when you say he feels he should attend while she is in the hospital?

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

How has such event changed your relationship?

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

You are in a committed relationship, aren't you, the same way as she is, right?

Rafael M.T.Therapist :

Then which are the issues now created by his behaviors that are concerning you this much? Has he been inconsistent with the promises he made and agreements you have? Please tell me more about it so I could better understand your situation.