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Hi and welcome. I'm a Licensed Master Social Worker with more than 20 years experience working with individuals and families on a variety of issues.
I am sorry to hear of this break up. It is very painful for you.
I know that you want her back and the best way to give that a chance is to let her be and see if she comes back to you on her own.
If she has changed her number then it seems like she is pretty serious about this ending so time is the only thing you can give to see if she comes back.
In the mean time it is important that you care for yourself and take care of your feelings and put one foot in front of the other each day to begin to heal from the pain.
In time you will know whether you relationship will come back but forcing it won't help you to make it happen.
When you come online we can chat.
Thank you I am hoping ahe is only.doin this for attention changing her number.attention from family I mean.her mother stopped talkin to her 1 year ago and it hurt her...I picked up the pieces m now she wants to be back in her life.so I sed fine but I can't support that decision as I don't trust she won't.hurt you again...we argued and she left...I hope she does come back though ite really painful
hi I am here
very painful for you but it seems like she may be struggling with having a good relationship with both of you at the same time
so maybe you do what you can if she comes back around to let her know you support her repairing things with her mom
Thank you really do hope she comes round and takes me back.
I hope she does too and in the meantime please care for yourself and do what you can to feel your best and get all the support you need so you are not feeling alone.
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thank you again and i just wish i knew what i could do to get her back but she has changed her number and facebook so i have no contact unless i write her a letter
I know how hard it is
but we can never force anyone to come back...if it is meant to be that way she will find you.
the best you can do now is focus on your healing and growth from this.
ye i hope so
I am rooting for you but also rooting for you caring for yourself well during this painful time
ok ill try
that is a great start
I am here if you need me moving forward
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