There is no doubt he has commitment issues. We have been together over two years, but we still live apart. He has a good excuse for us not living together: he has a joint mortgage with a friend, but he earns a lot he could easily buy his friend out. He lives under the "if it ain't broke, why fix it" mantra. We are happy so why change anything? However, I cannot live that way, I want us to build a life together, not live apart. Yes I now have a ring on my finger, but what does it mean to him? To me it means forever (I know, eternity: obvious), but what if it means to him, yes I love you, yes you make me happy and I want to be with you, but not the whole run?