she does know how I feel about her and I have told her that I can't walk away. She has told me that she knows we would be happy together but is scared to make the leap. When I told her I knew she had been with the other guy she just kept saying she was sorry she'd hurt me and that she never meant to. I think she has made her decision but is afraid of telling me, I said I would give her some space to think about things. My honest feeling is that she wants me to keep quiet about it in case the other guy finds out, she hasn't contacted me for a few days now so I fear the worst.
Thank you for your question. You do not want to give her space because that will make her decision easier. You want to show her you are there. You want her to get use to you being in her life. You want to check in with her everyday and ask her how she is doing and how was her day. You want to show her that you want to be in her life. You want to not give her space she does not need time to think. She needs to see that you and her can have a relationship together.
She has said that she knows you both could be happy together so she has given this a lot of thought.
She has picture you and her together for the future. Do not give her space contact he right away and ask her how she is doing share your life with her and have her share hers as well.
I have tried to text her to see if she is okay, but she doesn't respond. I have a feeling it's too late to rescue the situation, even though I know she cares. All her other boyfriends have treated her poorly and she tells me she is not used to being treated nicely. She said the other day that she would like to meet my daughters so she could explain? But I don't know what she wants to meet them for and what she has to explain. It's very hard to read what is going on, but I don't think I can take much more of the not knowing where we both are, one day she's fine and the next she doesn't know what to do.
thank s for your question.
She wants to meet your daughters and I see that as a sign that she is looking towards the future with you and her.
You mentioned that she has had past boyfriend problems.
It will take her some time the get use to someone being nice too her.
The reason why is she never had that and she knows she wants to be with you, but she might be having trouble with not thinking she is good enough for you.
You figure she has been poorly treated by boyfriends in the past so she would not feel good about herself and she would just be waiting for her next relationship to fail. You need to show her that this relationship can work, but she needs to give you a chance.
She needs to give you a chance, she needs to open her heart up 100 percent and not worry about falling in love.
She is scared to take that leap.
She doesn't want the best guy that has ever entered her life to leave. So you need to show her that this can work.