ive tried talking to her told her what ever problems there are we need to work it out she told me she loved me and even 2 weeks ago on morning of bbq she said about where my furniture will go when i move in!! Now she said she was fooling her self and now she realises we arnt close and i should respect her decision..now i just been seeing her at work 3 days a week hardley talking and if we do like weave never been in a relationship just friends...a few years before she met me she was married but ge ran away with another women so did the following boyfriend don't know if this has afected her it probley has she dosint want to talk about the relationship that we had i don't feel i can do anything..with the meals and money thing am wondering if an ex partner took advantage of her and now she acuses all men of ripping her off??
i think might be her best friend who lives next door i heard them talking once about me and she said id that what he said?? Shes a social worker and my ex listens to her they went on holiday together there was a young child dancing in a bar/reastuarant late at night as they were a family on holiday enjoying themselves my ex friend ran over to them should that child should be in bed there was nearly a fight so i think its maby her
i love her so much and i was so happy i don't think there anything i can do as shes made her mind up she dosint even want to try she said she dosint want to open it up again she dosint want to talk about any of it nomire i will just get and new job and try forget about her i cant just pretend we are friends and nothing has ever happens between us
thanks for all your advice best wishes