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Thankyou for the quick response, she is not straight to the point at all, she is terrible at making a decisions, she does change her mind a lot- im not sure if I want to push her when she is in what appears to be a "honeymoon period" because I do not want to push her further away, although we are getting on I don't feel as if I could ask her that question yet- Is it normal to go out your way to tell an ex how great everything is? or to even stay in touch at all so soon in a new relationship? if I was to say i've found someone surely I run the risk of pushing her closer to her new boyfriend??
That makes lots of sense, thats exactly what I feel she is doing by keeping the lines of contact open, and she has asked me more than once "you are over it aren't you" for which I reply yes I am, but still gutted it didn't work out or along those lines, I have not once reacted to anything she has said to provoke me, so I assume that is why she keeps prodding -when I dont respond straight away to messages I know she gets irritated- I'd like nothing more than to get back with her, I am kind of hoping this is a rebound and she will come to her senses, but I am also fully aware that she could live happily ever after with this guy and ill have to deal with that when I think thats the case - I would not be happy just to carry on as her friend, I guess soon if nothing comes of this, that is when the friendship will surely fizzle out - and if I was to move on and was happy I know I would cut off all contact completely with my ex because thats the right thing to do- Hope that gives you a bit of an insight to her personality, so do you think I should carry on being polite and see what happens or just cut her off for good now to save anymore hurt ?
I totally agree, thats why have been not so quick to rspond to her recently - Thankyou for your time - its been really helpful
What will be will be!
I will rate this now.