I completely agree with your response. Thank you.
The issue is that she is now not allowed to touch him and he wont touch her. Its very difficult for her to understand after a passion love affair lasting 18 mnths where both enjoyed this depth of intimacy . Would it be unreasonable for her to suggest counseling seperate or jointly. The reason she has not done this is because he probably would be stretched to afford it. Any books you can recommend to help her with?