How do I approach my friend to get her to talk to me? It has been 6 months since my friend spoke to me now, and she is still refusing to speak to me. She came to my door early one morning when I was still asleep, on my day off, without letting me know 6 months ago. I was still asleep when I went to the door, and she asked for her company's promotional brochure back, but proceeded to 'have a go' at me on the doorstep suggesting that I had been ignoring her phone calls. I always promptly reply to texts, as and when I can, and answer my mobile if I am not otherwise preoccupied. I never answer my house phone, unless someone says they will ring me on there. She then said for me to call her if I wanted to speak about things. I was very annoyed at this, and did not see why I should have to call her when I believe her actions were very rude to accuse me of ignoring her when I didn't know when these calls were supposed to be made. I tried to contact her via text recently, asking why I should be the one to call, and she ignored me. I tried to ask via facebook, but we go into a disagreement about it and she has cut me off. I am very upset as she is the only friend I had in Worcester since moving in January. I have asked another friend to call her, to talk to me as I am very upset with it all, and she won't answer the phone to him. What shall I do? I am very lonely and depressed here in Worcester now, and wonder why I bothered moving from London. Why does she think she is right, and everything I say is wrong? What do I do?
Thank you for your advice. I am extremely upset, as I have known this friend for over 10 yrs now.
The problem I have is that she has the spare set of keys to my flat that I rent, and she lent me her vacuum cleaner, so need to meet up to resolve these.
My friend has tried to contact her via text and phone, but she doesn't repsond. He was hoping that him and us could all have a meeting to resolve all of this.
Do I write to her explaining that it is very important to meet up to resolve her misunderstanding and the two issues above?
What do I do? My friend now doesn't want to know me at all. I called her yesterday, and all she seems to do is criticise me. I never seem to do anything right in her eyes.