Hi, I'm Dr. Jackie, a communication specialist and relationship expert. I'd like to help. I have some ideas but think it would be better if we were able to chat in real time.
I'm U.S. East Coast time. I think you are 5 or 6 hours ahead of me. So I am thinking you are probably asleep. Maybe I can catch you when you first get up--before I turn in for the night?
I'll wait on here for awhile and see if you do come on chat. :-)
I have some ideas that may help explain your bf's behaviors, but I would like to chat first and ask a few questions in order to get a better and clearer picture. Certainly the more details/facts I have, the better, specific recommendations I can give. :-)