I was just replying to the answer you gave me about my Muslim partner...Yes, obviously I cannot trust him, he has proved himself to be a liar. He does use his religion when it suits him, which is hypocritical, bearing in mind his behaviour with the teenager, the internet FaceBook, and now the internet porn. Living with him lately is like feeling the thousand shocks that flesh is heir to... it all seems extremely immature behaviour....I have another would- be suitor, who is older, in his sixties, that one could trust implicitly.... what a difference! But I love my partner... I will just have to keep my eyes wide open.... I have no illusions ... somehow I need to tackle him about the internet porn... but I don't really want him to know how I found it... he always leaves me his lap-top to use though, and doesn't put it away or anything... I will have to go about it in a round - about way... talking about someone else ... Anne..