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I like a guy, we flirt and laugh together. The other day he

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I like a guy, we flirt and laugh together. The other day he touched my hair from behind as I was talking to another guy at the time.
Submitted: 7 months ago.
Category: Relationship
Customer: replied 7 months ago.
I am 7th of March 1978 he is born the 8th of March 1973.
Expert:  Dr. D. Love replied 7 months ago.
Hello from JustAnswer.Could you clarify what question you are asking?What information are you seeking?
Customer: replied 7 months ago.
Do you think a guy likes you if he flirts with you.
Expert:  Dr. D. Love replied 7 months ago.
Thank you for the clarification. If a guy flirts with you, that is certainly an indication that he is interested enough to get to know you better. If he already knows you fairly well, then flirtation would indicate that he likes you. But there are many situations in which a guy does not yet know you that well, and when he is flirting in that situation, that would indicate an initial attraction and an interest in getting to know you better. If you are also interested in getting to know him better, then it would be appropriate to encourage the relationship. If I can provide any additional information, please let me know.
Customer: replied 7 months ago.
Why does he keep staring at you. I also saw him checking me out with a big smile on his face. When we do talk he is always looking into my eyes all the time. One time I even felt the tension after spending time talking to him, it felt like we were the only two in the place even do there was some else there but we blocked her out and just kept looking into each other.
Expert:  Dr. D. Love replied 7 months ago.
The staring and focusing on you is also a sign of interest. This is all good and if you are also interested in him, then it would be fine to encourage the relationship.
Customer: replied 7 months ago.
Why does he talk to other women around you and maybe flirts with some of them in front of you. I know his body language is saying he likes me but sometimes he goes hot and cold which I just ignore him to see what happens. I'm i doing the right thing when he does hot and cold?.
Expert:  Dr. D. Love replied 7 months ago.
Until his relationship with you develops, there is no reason that he should not interact with others. He may be hot and cold towards you until he knows whether the relationship with you will develop further. As for whether to ignore him, that would be counter productive if you want the relationship to progress. If you are not certain whether you want the relationship to progress, then it is fine to step back and see what he does.

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