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Thanks for being so open about how things were for you. I think giving him the space and the control to decide the pace of things will be helpful for you to achieve what you want and that is to get back together. If you try and control it too much then it could push him away again. Remind yourself that these are your trust issues and you are bringing them here to the relationship. Its not about being cool or full on and more about letting him guide things a bit.
Clearly you both love each other and are trying to find a way back so let it be free and easy.
I await your thoughts.
You are quite smart and can see how things played out for both of you in the past and now it is time to start with a clean slate and only look forward and not blame each other for the previous dynamic. You can carve out a new path and guide with love and patience and without blame.
yes but the good news? It may not be like that forever since you are finding your way back...don't push for too much too soon.
I truly get that desire...keep your eye on the goal...and that wouldn't get you there....patience, love and acceptance and letting him guide. Hard as a strong woman, I know, but pursuit is good.
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Thanks so much,