I think she is giving you a chance by meeting you. It is clear you both love each other and she may not want to be without you but unless you get a handle on how you are feeling about things and your reactions to it all, I don't see her being able to stay. I would get into some counseling for yourself so that you can deal with the incredible stress you have been under for the last few years with your bankruptcy and losing your house. You life, your love and your health are worth more than any home. It is quite possible that you can work this out and be together, but first you must show her you are working on your self and your temper so she can feel safe to be with you. If she reaches out to you to see you as she just did and you lose your temper you are showing her she made the right decision for herself. So show her the man she fell in love with and get yourself some support and work on yourself. You can do it. You deserve to be happy.
If she is still asking to see you then it seems like the feelings are there...maybe buried a bit from fear and protection of the hurt feelings, but they may be uncovered again if you are able to make changes and show her with your actions.
give her time and yourself time as well to make some changes, but you need to do the work and I think you can. That is right...she could just walk away and not be in contact so if she is confused there may be hope there but now the work has to come from you.
Be well and go make some changes and show her you can do it. Thanks for the positive rating. Have a great rest of the day.