This is Dr David
if you are married and living with your mother in law, you and your husband would be best to move out.
it sounds like you need your own space and to start your lives on your own terms.
this can be expensive and perhaps you don't have the funds at this point to move out.
often times, mothers feel threatened when their sons get married as this becomes a new women in their lives and they sometimes can feel that they are going to loose their son.
I'm not saying this to excuse any of her actions.
it sounds like your mother in law acts very immaturely.
it sounds like the best thing is to try go ignore her as much as possible, until you and your husband are able to find your own place.
are you and your husband on the same page on that and working towards moving out of the house and finding your own place?
well, you may have to just tolerate your mother in laws behavior at this point until you and your husband are able to move out of the home.
any idea when that may be?
do you think you would benefit if you could talk to a psychotherapist or counselor about this?
keep your lines of communication open with your husband.
try to ignore as best as you can his mother in law
keep your eye on the goal of moving out of the home in the future.
let me know if you have other questions.
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