Thanks for the response. I have an appointment with a Family Law Solicitor tomorrow. Hopefully I will be able to move forward on this. I was somewhat distraught yesterday, but managed not to phone social services, and I appreciate your agreement with this. However my position is too fraught to stay - so I will need to move out and prevent any opportunity for more false accusation and aggression.
I may be back for further information, if you are available I would be grateful. Thanks for your reply once again.