No, he is not living with me. I live on my own.
He works with me, and in fact he is my superior.
No witnesses, and no marks but I am sore on theright side of the neck. I didn't tell anyone although I did write to the psychologist at Nuffield Hospital who has been helping me during this abusive relationship. It's the first time he grabs my neck, but not the first time he pushes me and once he threw some spectacles at me. The abuse so far has always been verbal and psychological.