Thanks for the reply
I do not think she will go down this route but it was what her lawyer advised.
My wife even said that the lawyer would give advise of who to send the to.
I just thought the lawyer would also be guilty of blackmail
Can you tell me were you are based
Can you tell me what area of Scotland
I have drafted 3 proposals for a separation agreement but want some advise before presenting these to my wife as I not want either of us to lose out before coming to an agreement.
Feel that both need some advise and protection.
Currently I am offshore and it is difficult to have private conversations and I need to do a lot of communication via email.
Note I know that this would be outside of the any question limits and would need to have a face to face meeting at some point
This will take me a couple of days to put together an look at sky dive
My question would be what option should I follow shown on the following link.
Can you please give me a clue to what I would pay for this advise and who you would recommend if you cannot take me on as a client.
This would all be outside of the just answer service and I would cease to use this service
Thanks for the reply
The company has no assets as it is a service supply company that I use for myself working only.
I was thinking that I was being a bit generous and that is why I have made the 3 options.
At one point my wife went to a lawyer who said she would due more than 50% split as she gave up her career to look after the kids.
The same lawyer who said she needed my permission to buy food?
I am struggling to figure out how the % split is agreed
My own view is that if it we went to court we would both lose out as I think it would be option 1 sell every thing and split the proceeds with a higher % to Anne but no payments after this.
Could you give an indication of what the %split would be or what is the normal maximum as at one point some said her Anne the main house and nothing else.
I pointed out that she would still have the bills to pay?
Thanks for the quick reply
Thanks for the quick reply.
It now looks as if I need to speak to a lawyer regarding the split but it looks as if it would be better if we went to option 3 with a 50/50 split and myself paying money over a 3 year period.
I need to ask another question
I am currently off-shore and due off later today.
Just had a call from our materials department in Heysham who said that some one called in asking for my new address and girl friends name.
They said that were either a friend of the family or my nieces mum who I had not seen since x-mass.
They also said they were going to call other people who know me.
I have emailed my wife to say it can only be one of three people and have asked her to ask them to stop.
My wife will come back and she has no control over what other people do but I at the stage were I will get the police involved if need be as getting to the point that again getting harassed.
Ok I have left and I know people are hurt but they need to keep out of my wife's and mine own business.
Also thinking about reducing the amount I pay as I feel I am getting again blackmailed in a round about way?