My partner has not seen his children for 9 years following a bad break up. However now wishes to get in touch with them. they are aged 15 and 12. we are going to write to his ex wife and ask for contact either by letter, phone etc. can she refuse to allow this to happen? and what if she says that the children don't want to see there father? how can we prove this or move it forward?
No he is now divorced and we just know they are in a certain location.
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we have now contacted Steve's ex partner by letter asking for her to talk to the children to see if they want to talk to their dad by email, letter or any thing else.if she replies and says they don't want to have any communication with him, where does he stand.
a) do we have to take her word as read
b)or are we best going to a family solicitor, I dont feel mediation is the way forward as we live in Cheshire and they are in Scotland.