oh ok sorry was just answering ur qs directly and secifically. This currenly is the 3rd offense. 1st offence was 1 year ban. 2nd offence i believed ban was over but turned out i had 1 month left and was given 3 years.
relationship with mother has in the past been fine but now she seems to b trying to build a case against me based on any lil errors. (not that i say this to make an excuse, just trying to present my mindset tat the time.)
she has blocked me from contact her directly on her fone to speak to my five year old son, and has restricted me to giving her four days notice when i wish to see him. might i add we havnt bben to court or any form of mediation. she has also restricted communication with her regarding our son to only paper form - jotting down my concerns on a piece of paper and she replies accordingly.
The climate of our relationship is what has made this occasion different from the others.
my usual form of travel was train from bexleyheath to deptford, where his school is. usual train was missed and taking the nxt one would have certainly made me at leadt 30-40mins late which would warrant his school to contact her. tbh i slightly paniced!
i understand the gravity to my situation, i would wish to know what i can say to allow the court to give me an alternative punishment other than custodial and prevent me being separated from my son for any length of time, and somehow see that i was not totally negligent or showed blatant disregard for the law, and distinguish me from the usual suspect.... alternative sentence i.e. curfew, suspended sentance etc...