Hi Clare, i thought as much and so you know am completely aware of the legal status with regard to my Son.
I simply saw something relating to a debt owed by him and wanted to help.
My making contact with you was not to try and help resume seeing my Son, that is up to him. But a debts a debt and all i was asking was that my contact details were given to the friends Mother, and she could decide whether to call me.
[Just actually trying to do the right thing]
Anyways, looks like you can't / won't / are not in a position to pass on my info, even though it would solve the problem that both myself and said person have both paid to help resolve.
So lets call this case closed and i will move on and try somehow to find out who this person is and pay them directly.
Truth be told, bit sad that you can't help as it makes sense to get this situation resolved and you / Just answer have the power to resolve this in a legal and fair way.
Thanks for trying,