I really hope that she don't start playing those ind of games with him otherwise she is going to push him over the edge. That's when Dad start doing stupid things because they are so much distress.
I do worry for him Clare he is a innocent soul, 46 years old but a proper kind heart. He still loves his ex wife too and she as wanted him back for a long time but he has lost trust in her so he can't, although I think he will always love her in a way. If he had the residence order and was primary carer he would be so fair with her, he would give her full share. And if he didn't have too he would still say give the children s mother full share in holidays if the shoe was on the other foot.
She will stoop pretty low to get what she want ie. she has messed his head up so much allowing 'new' boyfriends around the children, it has drove him over the edge already and he through one out of her house, she just phones the police on him and it is 1 point to her..... a police log against Jason to use in court if needs be.
She has done that twice now to him run and had his named logged .
No one knows how much she as mentally tortured Jason because he don't go running to the police. I hope things settle down and they can get along as well as can be expected but she is so tricky Clare and when she joins forces with her Mum they can be seriously damaging and walk away from a life they have destroyed. Heartless to get what they want. We did not even know what a residency order was when Jason divorced her but she sure did and she knew what came with it..... primary care of the three children, all of the benefits and a lovely big paid for house too.
They had done it all before with broken relationships in their family but we were innocent new nothing of court forms ect.
God you must be fed up of me........ so sorry, just wish you were my brothers solicitor, you are thinking about what next and it as crossed my mind today too. The next way she is not getting her way with Jason or he is not bending to all of the rules what will she do to him next.