There is now way she or me would agree to mediation. Horrific relationship. I was going to send this in a letter to her:
After seeking legal advice, I request a ‘clean break’ and that my name to be removed from the Mortgage of 10 King Oswald Crescent and any Bank Accounts.
You can apply to the bank for a ‘deed of transfer’. I have spoken to the bank and all you have to do is give them a call.
I need to be able to provide accommodation for my children and I am unable to apply for a mortgage whilst my name is ***** ***** the deeds of 10 King Oswald Crescent.
I am sure you will agree that it is in the interest of all concerned.
You should have no problems financially being able to secure the mortgage in your name only.
The only other option available is to sell the property, which would then release me from the mortgage. There is between £120,000 -£135,000 worth of equity in the property, which the court can decide what is a fair split financially.
(Property adjustment order)
If you do not agree or you think my proposal is unsatisfactory, I will withdraw the offer and we will have to let the court decide what is deemed fair.
If I have not heard how you intend to proceed with 2 weeks from the date of the letter I will have to instruct my solicitor to take matters further.
Please reply to the address at the top of this letter.