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I am a Solicitor and will assist you.
I am very sorry to hear about the difficulties in your marriage.
What you need to know is that if your husband does not agree to you and the children moving to Scotland then he can apply to court for a prohibited steps order to prevent you doing so.
If your husband took such action then the court would have to make the decision as to whether the move is in your children's best interests. You would have to present a case to the court that the move would be in your childrens best interests. It would be wise to look at local facilities in the area you wish to move including schools and nurseries.
You would also need to consider how you would promote contact with the father. This would be an important consideration for the court so you should consider all options including weekends, holidays, skype, telephone calls etc.
Its best to let your husband know your position and find out what his is.
Family mediation is an option to consider. They can help you discuss arrangements and proposals. there are lots of family mediation services and there will be one local to you. Just google family mediation in your area and give them a call to get the ball rolling. If family mediation is unsuccessful then the court will have to decide.
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