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Clare, Family Solicitor
Category: Family Law
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My husband takes the children for overnight stays and then

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my husband takes the children for overnight stays and then he asks me to return them. Is this legal? one is 18 and one is 8 but there are no buses on sundays and holdiays where he lives. Besides the bus one way costs £15. what should i do?
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.

Thank you for your question

My name is Clare

I shall do my best to help you but I need some further details

What is the actual pattern of contact?

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
well it was usually friday afternoon to sunday because children were at school but i let them go whenever he/my ex wants because his parents are here for a visit. I don't know why he wants me to pick them up
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.

How long can then be away if need be?

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
lrngth of stay is not in dispute, who returns them is the problem. He say he picks them up from the house so I should pick them up for reruns from his house,
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.

I was meaning this week - if he refuses to bring them back today will it hurt if they stay there until tuesday?

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
oh no, but the question is not that. We simply want to know if there is a law on transportation. He says you have to cooperate and bring them back, one way me, one way you. Is there a law on this? for me the reasonable thing is that when u take them, u return them yourself
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.

Ah I see - my apologies.

Who moved away - you or your ex?

How far away does he live?

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
We are living separately dice November. I live in marital home and he live*****away
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.

Fine - so only 20 minutes if you have a car - which you do not?

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
I have a car but he is not paying child maintenance as orders by cms and this is only responsibility.
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.

Can I just check - is there actually a bus they could get to him on?

Customer: replied 1 year ago.
No bus on Sunday's and bank holidays and other days it costs 15£ one way which he wants me to pay
Expert:  Clare replied 1 year ago.

There is no set rule.

In general terms where appropriate it is expected that parents will indeed share the travel between them - unless one parent has moved far away in which case that parent might be expected to bear the larger burden of travel.

In this case a 20 minute journey would not be seen as unreasonable for you to undertake - if he was paying the CMS assessment.

Since he is not I suggest that you tell him that you will deal with the collection as and when he deals with the maintenance

Please ask if you need further details