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Paying or not paying child support is not relevant when the court considers contact between a child and their parent. If the mother is refusing you contact then you should attempt mediation and where necessary apply to the court for a child arrangement order - which sets out the basis of the timer which both parents spend with a child. There is a very helpful book on amazon which you may wish to consider - https://www.amazon.co.uk/d/Books/How-Represent-Yourself-Family-Court-understanding-resolving/147211910X
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