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Hello, thank you for the question.
I am sorry to hear of the situation. If the inheritance is received and used during the marriage, the court considers it to be for the use of the spouses in the matrimonial finances and as such, it may conclude that you cannot keep it. However, the court looks at all the circumstances of the case including the length of marriage, what lifestyle you were accustomed to, your financial contributions (and his), any debts, any children, and more factors.
I don't know if you co-own the house or one party owns it (I presume you both own it). You can use the fact you contribute the £160,000 towards the house to argue for a higher share. Ultimately it would come down to negotiation but as I say, if the inheritance monies were used by you both for the house, the court is likely to conclude the money was "in the matrimonial pot used by both parties".
Is your husband likely to consent to the divorce and if so, has there been any discussion regarding finances at this early stage?