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Can you tell me how old your child is please and whether you have seen this behaviour or if it is something your child is reporting to you?
Hello - apologies. As you had a cancelled call request the system archived your question. It's back with me now.
If you are concerned for her safety and there is evidence of this behaviour in the past, then you have grounds to suspend contact - in my view. Really you should apply to court rather than just breach the order, and this should start with mediation first - though because there is violence involved in this scenario the mediation service may advise that this is not suitable.
Contact a mediator via the link here to get their view as to whether you can proceed straight to court: https://www.familymediationcouncil.org.uk/find-local-mediator/
It isn't always a good idea to blindly follow the wishes of an 8 year old, but in your case she has vocalised behaviour that is upsetting her and you have evidence that he has behaved like this in the past - so you have grounds to suspend it for now.
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