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You don't have a right to know exactly where this is, if he does not want to disclose it. But in many cases a reasonable discussion about this is helpful - though by the sounds of the lengthy court battle this may not be possible.
If contact is court ordered and this includes overnights, as long as the children are safe there is no obligation for the location to be disclosed to you. Have you met the new partner, or do you have any concerns about her?
OK. I think its reasonable to ask for information about her, a bit of background and where her property is. If he refuses to give any information at all, you could ask that overnights at hers are not started until you have some more information, but if she has her own children and there are no concerns there, it's going to be difficult to put up resistance for long. As I said, if contact is court ordered he doesn't have to give all of this information. The key factor is the children - if they are unsettled by this and the relationship with this woman is still quite new it may be unsettling for them to be sleeping there if it's not clear whether the relationship has a future. You both need to be involved in decisions about the children, so some information would hopefully be forthcoming. Personally I think it's a positive to ask to meet her - if she is going to be looking after your children it would be better to see if you can try to get along, if at all possible.
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