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Hi, I'm Lea and I have reviewed your query.
How old are your children? Do they live with their father or are they spending time with him?
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If he is in breach, why does he want to take you back to court?
Can your children bathe themselves?
How much contact does he have with the children?
How long has he known this woman he is allowing to bathe the children?
I presume she was not in the picture when the court proceedings were taking place?
I would suggest that you make a request to him, in writing, not to permit his new friend to bathe the children as it is inappropriate. He is the parent and if the children still need to be bathed, then he should do it, though at 7 and 8 I would suggest that they could probably adequately wash themselves for a couple of nights. You can, after all, oversee their bathing when they are in your care - as their mum.
If he doesn't comply with that, then I'd suggest that you return the matter to court so that this woman can be background checked. If he met her on the internet he has no way of knowing what her background is or why she is interested in bathing his children so soon into her relationship.
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