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How old is your child?
No, she shouldn't throw it away. She is free to ignore it if she doesn't want it.
If there are court proceedings, then it is likely that CAFCASS will recommend a s7 welfare report so that they can speak to your child directly - in which case she will be able to give her views about contact with her father to the CAFCASS officer who will report them back to the court. At 12 her views will be of interest to the court when they make a decision.
I still don't recommend the child returns the card - it will be seen that the mother is encouraging her to do that. If the child doesn't want the card, she can put it to one side, unopened. There is nothing to force her to open things she is sent.
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