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My girlfriend is very insecure and I think she plays mind

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My girlfriend is very insecure and I think she plays mind games to see how much I love her what ever I do is not enough
Submitted: 5 years ago.
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Expert:  Mr. Wilson replied 5 years ago.
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Customer: replied 5 years ago.
Yes she is always saying do you love me or do you want me, will we make it?
Need quite a bit of help to be honest and don't really know where to begin.
She will say things like-
Are you coming to see me tomorrow? I'll say yes then the next day she asks if I am still coming up. When I haven't said I'm not.
Very double standards like-
She went out the other night with her friends and texted me half way through the night saying just pulled lol, I guy came up to me and said can I buy you a drink so I said no and walked off but she had to tell me he had big muscles. Why did she say that .
If I had texted her on my night out and said a woman had just come up to me and asked to buy me a drink and she had large breasts she would have gone Barmy
I have said this to her and it doesn't seem to make any difference
I trust her 100% and I know she would not cheat but she tells me every time she gets chatted up as though she is expecting a response.
She was on Facebook and bumped into a old school friend, after some chit chat he asked her out for a drink. She rang me and said I feel uncomfortable with this Facebook I have just been asked out for a drink by a old friend he has 2 kids and is married, I know what he is after.
Then I said did you reply and she said no, when I looked on her Facebook as she has told me her password ***** look when you want, as she said she wants me to mix with her friends too. I saw she had replied and she had put " yes a drink would be nice"
When I said you did reply why did you say you didn't she said I didn't reply because I didn't set a date and a time.
What made me angry is she had replied when she said she hadn't and she had said yes a drink would be lovely when she knew what this guy was after.
When I asked what would you have done if he had said ok see you tomorrow at 7 she said I would have said no, because I was just being nice and would not have gone anyway very confused.
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