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Im lewis and I've been trying to find love on dating websites.

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Hi im lewis and I've been trying to find love on dating websites. I've been talking to a girl I've meet online and have been chatting with her for almost a week. But I'm worried now that she lost interest in me as when I first started chatted to her she responded to my emails when she first got them. Now I seams to be the second or the third time she logs into her account. Do you maybe think she's losing interest because I hadn't ask her out yet or do you think it might be something else I'm doing wrong?
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: General
Expert:  Cher replied 1 year ago.
Hi, Lewis and welcome. You've only been speaking online for a short time and things may have changed with her schedule, she became busier and/or she may be speaking with other guys on dating sites, too. I don't feel you're doing anything wrong and I think it's premature to ask her out, if you have only been chatting for a week. You should get to know more about each other and continue talking for a while longer, online, before you ask her out. If you're very interest in her, you can make the suggestion of speaking on the phone. If you set up a mutually convenient time and day for a phone call, that would be a good next step. If you feel she's losing interest, try to make your emails a little more exciting by telling her about some things that happened to you in the past that were really funny or unexpected and allow your sense of humor shine through. I wish you much good luck and hope you have a chance to go out on a date with her, once you know each other for a longer period of time! Please be so kind as to rate my answer with positive feedback; that is the only way I receive credit for my assistance. Thank you very much!Providing a positive rating will not end our conversation, should you need me for any follow-up. Simply click 'Reply' for clarification or additional information, if needed, and I will be glad to continue.Warmest regards,Cher