no, we did not keep a written record.
I did have to leave work on one occasion when contacted by my wife. She had been subjected to a tirade of abuse when returning from the school run. A neighbour and her husband had taken her in and were looking after her. My wife did not want to call the police.
On another occasion the neighbour's wife was shouting abuse over the garden fence at me for using an electric saw, mid-afternoon, mid-week. The husband shepherded her into the house when she started to shout about our religious beliefs, and when I asked him why she was shouting he denied she had said anything at all.
The wife quite regularly watches from windows, front and back, and when seen waves two fingers or shouts from the window.
when my wife leaves or enters the house the husband stands and stares straight at her, he doesn't do this if I am present.
My children have noticed that the husband had been standing back from a bedroom window and watching them playing on the trampoline.
When he realised he could be seen, I stood and looked straight at him, net curtains were put up the next day.
Each time we go into the garden they open their upper floor windows whenever we sit down, presumably to listen, the windows are rarely open when we go out.
The wife was shouting abuse at my son, 17, for playing music she didn't like. He has an excellent behaviour record at school, scouts, and is a junior leader for the 'cubs'.
The fence is the neighbours property, he removed 95% of a dense mature bushy border on his side of a pre-existing wire fence and replaced that with a 5ft gravel board and panel fence. This meant because of the angle at which his garden is set that he can and does look straight into our living room and kitchen/dining room. Which was why we put up the screening, though we still find he stands behind that and observes through the gaps.
Sorry if I've rambled on, but this is really upsetting my wife.