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Alex Watts : Are they based in the uk too please?
they are all british citizen
Hi Alex, I know it sounds strange, epecially when you see our ages, but do you need more information?
and my name isXXXXX so you can see who you are talking to :-)
Alex Watts : If there is contact being made and this is causing both of you distress you could complain for the Police a our harassment.
Alex Watts : This is where one party pursues a course of conduct, normally two or more contacts and this causes alarm or distress then this is harassment.
Alex Watts : The police can warn them and if they continue are able to prosecute.
Alex Watts : If prosecuted an injunction can be sought to prevent contact and if so it would be breach of a court ordrt.
Alex Watts : clearly if you went through the police it would be free.
Alex Watts : You could seek a private injunction but if fought it would be around £10,000
Alex Watts : But try the police first.
Alex Watts : Can I clarify anything for you about this today please?
this is trickier as she still lives at her parents. The hassles is for example when she stays at our place, they will text/phone (a lot) or say she is a fool and so on
I feel they are actually harrassing her/us but it has become such an emotional blackmail that we are "yo-yoing" between getting married and living a life we both want to a state of mind where she feels she "has" to give us up to keep her parents happy
Alex Watts : Is that illegal - only if it falls into the definition of above.
Alex Watts : Is emotional blackmail illegal, in itself do.
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Alex Watts : You can take action, but it's a matter for you.
Alex Watts : Does that help?
of course. So, if it causes both of us distress it is what makes is "wrong", is that what you are saying?
Alex Watts : Yes.
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so (and sorry to be pedantic or slow)...if she was contacted and was still happy about the contact, didn't feel distressed and so on, it would be right. The "what makes it wrong" is the fact that those contacts, (be texts, conversations or phonecalls) cause distress? Just making sure I understand your definition
Alex Watts : If she was happy, then there is nothing she can do.
Alex Watts : Its only if there is alarm or distress would it be a problem
excellent...this has clarified it. Thank you so much
and I will leave feedback
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Can I clarify anything for you about this today please?