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Clare, Solicitor
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I found out that my husband had webcam with women, so told

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I found out that my husband had webcam sex with women, so told him I could not accept that as a wife and we were over on the 29th of April.
I know I shouldn't but I checked his email's and found he has joined a fetish dating website and 2 dating websites which he joined on the 2nd May. Also he got in touch with a prostitute 2 weeks after I told him we were over.
We are still living together, and have decided to sell our house so we can move on, as he earns about £80k a year and I only earn £30k we have agreed that I will get £150-£160k and he will get £120-£130k.
Due to what has happened can I get more from him?
Thank you for your question.
My name is XXXXX XXXXX I will do my best to help you
I am afraid that the grounds of the divorce - and anything that he does after you agree to separate - doe snot effect the eventual financial settlement unless the Behaviour is so appalling that it actually effects your financial position
I hope that this is of assistance - please ask if you need further details
Customer: replied 3 years ago.

He said that he wasn't even sure we should have got married, and that about 6 years ago he wasn't sure of us.


He had a sperm count a year after we got married and it was very low, however he blames me for us not having children.

If he had finished our relationship 6 years ago I may have had the chance to find another partner and had children, now at 47 I am too old.


He has stolen my child bearing years away from me.


I am so sorry - but whilst all of this will get you a divorce one of it effects the financial settlement
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Customer: replied 3 years ago.

Last couple of things I hope,

1. should I get it in writing what we have agreed the split of the house should be, before I ask him to leave our home and would an email with the information on be legit?

2. what rights do I have to ask him to leave? ~ it is killing me each day we share the house together, I have tried to keep it as normal as possible cooking for him, washing etc.,, but wouldn't be able to afford the mortgage on my own or the other household bills come to that.


The reason I ended our relationship was I felt he was an adulterer, he told me how there are different types of web cam sex, one where a group of men pay $10.00 a show and all wash a girl put on a show for them, or the other type is where you pay $10.00 a minute and you tell the girl what you want her to do. He said he had been on the latter one.

It is always a good idea to get offers in writing - but they are not enforceable until they are made into a Court Order as part of the Financial side of Divorce proceedings
I am afraid that you cannot force him to leave the Matrimonial home unless he is physically violent towards you.
However you should stop doing his washing cooking cleaning etc and start living separately in the property
Customer: replied 3 years ago.

Thank you Clare.

You are welcome