I know what you mean. but I do not believe they are acting properly in other ways.
They are totally ignoring my own physical disabilities for which they have proof and they are not giving me any entitlement to any adult life. They were not even aware that I was entitled to my own carers assessment and they are ignoring sleep deprivation because of chronic sleep issues of my son...I believe they are breaching my human rights!! I have a right to SOME life of my own (a FEW weeks of the year!) and I most definitely have a right to sleep!! They are making me get up after two three four to NO hours sleep and have been for two years or more....and it is sending my loopy!! Its all about budgets for them!!
But they will spare no expense on lawyers!
They know HE wont give me the breaks I want (SO little!!) and THEY wont.......and so it goes on......there will be nothing left of me soon!!
But they will then pay foster carers oodles of money to care for my son......and NO ONE will be able to do the sleep patterens that I do!!
They are making me sound like I do NOT WANT MY SON!! when I can provide by my very actions that my son has come first in my life (and so he will always!) I just need some breaks!!! all the breaks that they give me do is allow me to catch up on housework and jobs!!! I can be just as tired when he returns after a couple of days off!!
it is an appalling situation and I am sure my human right are being breached and there are laws about giving carers breaks they WANT yes?
They are creating a situation where i cannot survive and then will take my son......when actually I believe they do NOT HAVE anyone who will do what I do!!
If I COULD do it then I WOULD of course!! But they are destroying me physically and mentally!!
They KNOW I cannt do it...but will not give me the breaks i want and NEED! It is a humans right issue i think........i defy ANY person I know as an adult of reasonable intelligence to watch baby programmes day in day out and not have the chance to sleep?