Alex Watts : Hello my name is ***** ***** I will help you with this.
Alex Watts : For now please just clairfy that he was paying for your time, not for sex itself?
I didn't mention sex. I told him I would spend the weekend with him.
Alex Watts : Ok. I am on and offline as on the train.
Alex Watts : i assume you did intend to spend time with him?
Sorry no problem. I did and I thought that I could have but I was really scared by his controlling nature. Like he told me i had to be off the site for six months AFTER the loan.
I just want to know how I should proceed with this really?
Having a panic attack here :( I don't want all my friends, family and employers knowning. It was a really stupid mistake. He implied that he wanted a relationship with me too, so I can't help but feel that he's angry about that too,
Alex Watts : You don't need to panic. It's a civil issue.
Alex Watts : Its not prostituion because you were being paid for time, not sex.
Alex Watts : Second you had intended to go through with the deal when you struck it. Therefore it can't be fraud. Just because you change your mind later does not make it fraud.
Alex Watts : It is only if you had no intention from the outset of going through with the deal and took the money would it be fraud.
Alex Watts : Can I clarify anything for you about this today please?
Thank you. What would the police do if he went to them? i don't want my family to know. I don't want the police turning up on my door.
Alex Watts : they would say it's civil
sorry so just for reassurance, one last thing, would the police even investigate it? Would they come to my house?
Alex Watts : The police could but it would be unlikely.
Alex Watts : Does that help?
How would you advice that I proceed? Is it worth me contacting him to try and arrange a repayment plan?
Alex Watts : I would do that. He could issue a small claim and you would not be able to offer any real defence.
Alex Watts : But yes contact and say You wish to repay the money, that would help.
Ok then. Thank you.