some years ago my parents split up at the time my mother said to my farther he could stay iin the house.
After a year or so she changed her mind so I decided that I would take out a mortgage on the property to pay my mother her share,
in doing so i got in to financial difficulties which meant i had to sell the house but because this was a fixed mortgage i had to pay 50000 back which i didnt have.
I ttok out various loans and paid it onn cards etc I am still in debt my Farther helps me he gives me 500 pcm to help.
my farther is now going to have an op and they want bank stateements to see how much financhal help he will getso they are going to see this short fall and will be asking me questions .
now this was an agrement between my dad and me that he would help me and has been douing so for a few years.
I dont want thm to think im stealing
because i am not he ageed to help me in fact in his words he said if I have it youu can take it.
but I have nthing written down now I spoke to him this morning and he remembers this converstaion very well but they are telling me he has cognatve diffficulties.
I am going to stop taking money from him now were d I stand??
Will they call the police??