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Clare, Solicitor
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My sister and her husband are living with my father in his

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My sister and her husband are living with my father in his house and are making it incredibly difficult for me when I visit.
This has escalated from goading me to threatening behaviour and slander.
This has been going on for more than 2 yrs but at the weekend it escalated with my sister and brother in law screaming, swearing and slandering me and also my brother.
I thought my brother in law was going to punch me or/and my brother.
This began because my sister returned from America where she had lived for last 30 yrs and moved into my fathers as a temporary base.
After a few months she tried to put him in an old peoples home but I found out in time and blocked it.She was livid.
I have offered her to move out and another sister and I will look after my father but she is a control freak and so won't do this.
She has in the last few months got my father to sign an LPA for health etc and he is 94 yrs old and has dementia.
S/S say they are powerless to act as she has not locked anyone out of the house.
My father has 7 children and has made it clear he wants to see all of us.
I am at my wits end and have decided to stay away for a while.
Thank you for your question.
My name is Clare
I will do my best to help you but I need some further information first.
Did he actually have sufficient mental capacity to sign a Power of Attorney?
Customer: replied 2 years ago.
I don't think so but this also seems to be a grey area.
Has the LPA been Registered?
Customer: replied 2 years ago.
I don't know and daren't approach OPG to find out
May I ask why not?
Customer: replied 2 years ago.
Concerned situation being made worse as presumably my sister would be aware
No in fact she would not be aware and this is your starting point you can find out how to do so here
If one has been registered then you and your siblings need to consider whether or not you wish to challenge this and ai to take over your father's care.
Clearly if your sister or her partner does actually assault you then the police should be called.
Please ask if you need further details
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

Thank you.I will check this out but may need further assistance.

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