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My ex girlfriend has reported me as we agreed that

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my ex girlfriend has reported me for fraud as we agreed that her child benefits and tax credits would be paid into my account as she was declared bankrupt on 1st april 2014 since the breakdown of the relationship she is demanding any money she gifted aswell as reporting me for fraud as not all the benefits were transferred back as this was agreed between ourselves at the time that i could use the funds..where do i stand?
Thank you for your question. My name is ***** ***** I will try to help with this.
Are you asking if you have a defence?
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

yes i would like to know what defence i have and how i need to support this as she has reported this to the NFIB.

Are you on benefits?
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

no i work full time in the armed forces, she has a young child and used my account as her nominated for her benefits after her bankruptcy

Sorry if I am missing the point but what is the fraud then?
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

this is my thought, she nominated my account but because the benefits were never transferred back to her in full - due to verbal agreements to share the funds if needed at the time, she is now claiming i have skimmed the funds fraudulently for my own gain

How long did you receive the funds in this way?
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

09/04/2014 - 08/06/2015

the relationship ended around early june.

Thanks. I wouldn't worry about this.
This is just the usual nonsense from women who use allegations of abuse to get revenge. Amazing how they all remember their partners in hoods in forests chanting satanic verses when the relationship is over but not before.
She will probably be saying that you were 'controlling' and abusive so she couldn't report it earlier. They do that sadly because they go online reading twaddle on sites like Refuge and realise that if they pretend to be vulnerable they don't have to take any responsibility.
Plain fact remains, this went on throughout your relationship and your explanation is a good one. She didn't complain until you finished. I presume that you can show from transactions that it was repaid to her anyway at least with cash withdrawals.
Sadly the main issue with vexatious reporters like her is that they make us all waste our time and taxpayer's money. They do not usually lead to convictions.
Can I clarify anything for you?
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