i am a british born subject, in 2007, i meet a ghanaian girl on the internet, our relationship developed , and i went to ghana in august 2007 and we did , what the ghanaians call the customary right wedding ,its a sort of medi evil type or pre wedding ritual that was on the 02/08/07, i came home to the uk, kept in touch with victoria, then Vicoria and a few members of who i thought was her family, started to ask me for very large amounts of money, the told me that i would get every penny back, they told me that the money was to pay off family members, who were due money from the head of the family for the crops on their section of land, Elais Sfier who was the family head, and was a high member of the poiice force in Accra, i had no reason to dis believe these people as i did not know, elias pretended to be at first on a course in South Africa, and as he said could not get to the bank to pay off these family members, then he told me that he had an heart attack and was very ill, also whilst in South Africa ,he was there supposed to be over 2 years, and i was ask to pay out much more then i though, i lost well over £100,000 pounds, if you add on the double payment for Accomodation the times i was in ghana, 2007 and 2009, food travel and many more payments to elias , victoria and to victoria,s friend, and the man who was pretending to be victoria,s dad, and lastly to the girl pretending to be victoria,s sister charlotte Ansu, you can add another, £50,000 to that, in 2009 on the advice of the immigration lawyers in Cardiff, i went back to ghana, and this time, they persuaded me to do the real wedding i had sent again a lot of money to ghana to cover again all the things i,d want, food lodging etc, when i got there i had to pay up again, anyway, i was taken to a grubby little room ,where i was told it was the court house, to sign this book, which i did this was on the 27/01/09, and the wedding came on the Saturday 31/01/ 2009. they took me for more before i went home, when i did get home ,after a year, my wife who i thought was my wife anyway, told me that her name was not Victoia Ansu, or the first Victoria, her name is***** we had meet for the first time, in 2009, and that we had not done the customary right wedding, they were two different women, but looked similar , Comfort has a growing son as well none of this i know, i on leaning all this, stopped all possible entry into the uk for Comfort, non of them has been here, we did not have sex, not even after the wedding, i came home to the uk, Confort has never warn my name nor the wedding ring since that day, we were only together for a total of 2 weeks in 2009, we have been apart for nearly 7 years her there and myself in the uk, i want to have this wedding scrapt if only from the uk side,all they want me for is money there is no love involved, anyway thank you for your advice