Thank you for the information. What has happened here is she has stopped contact for "safeguarding" reasons (this does not mean you are necessarily a danger to the child). This is a perfectly legal thing to do. However, what you will need to do is go to mediation and see if you can resolve the matter. You can agree to take regular tests and supply them as evidence to show you are to using. However, ultimately, if she doesn't agree to mediation then I am afraid you would have no option but to take the matter to court.
To find a mediator in your local area, use this site :
In order to apply to the court, you will need to fill out and send form C100 (copy attached) with a cheque of £215 payable to HMCTS to your local family court centre. Or you can ring the court and pay over the phone (or pay in person if you go directly to the court and pay at the counter). If you are on low income/have low savings you can apply for a fee exemption here:
Once you apply the court will list a hearing where you and your ex attends. There will be a family advisor there too (from Cafcass) and if arrangements can be agreed then a consent order will be drawn up.
I hope this information has helped and sincerely wish you the best of luck moving forward. You can find a local solicitor who deals with this on the law society webpage which is;
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