If they don’t communicate, it’s either because they have been told not to communicate, she hasn’t paid the bill, they are just ignorant and can’t be bothered although your inefficient, or they are no longer instructed.
If they don’t reply, write back and tell them that unless you have a reply within the next 48 hours, you will write directly to their client. I wouldn’t be messing about wasting time in correspondence.
If she is simply not complying with a request or an order then you make an application for an “unless order” which is an order that unless she does XYZ by ABC date then DEF will happen.
So for example if she doesn’t let you have all the information that you want to buy a particular date, then the court orders that judgement is awarded against her. In extreme circumstances of non-compliance to a court order it could be that she goes to jail but you are a long way from that.
I don’t know whether you have 7030 split in a prenuptial agreement and whether you both took legal advice on the effect of that but if you didn’t, your 7030 agreement at the time of doing the mortgage is of little effect and virtually no effect if you have since had children.
Costs are not normally awarded in the family court unless one of the parties has acted really unreasonably and you could ask for costs to be awarded against her on the basis that the majority of your correspondence has been unnecessary and only due to her not replying.
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