This is potentially financial abuse.
Unfortunately, the courts will not get involved in marital finances unless you have started divorce or legal separation proceedings.
Unlike domestic violence, where a person can be arrested and charged, it doesn’t apply in respect of financial abuse.
If you are remaining married, the courts will not make her contribute or give you money.
If you decide to get divorced the threat of the legal proceedings and a substantial financial claim by you, may focus her mind.
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