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I got divorced in March through an online service my ex

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I got divorced in March through an online service my ex husband agreed to pay me half of his pension but now the divorce is through he saying I'm not entitled to anything
JA: What steps have you taken? Have you filed any papers in family court?
Customer: No because when the divorce went through he agreed to it, that's why the solicitor agreed to do the divorce quickly
JA: Have you talked to a lawyer about this yet?
Customer: Not yet problem is he is due to get his early payment on the 20th September but he left it until now to say I'm not getting anything
JA: Is there anything else the Lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured that they'll be able to help you.
Customer: No

Hello. Thank you for the question. It is my pleasure to assist your with this today.

Please bear with me and I will be online and off-line from time to time and therefore, may be delayed getting back to you. You will receive an email when I reply.

Did you have a financial settlement?

and if not you wish to pursue him for what he promised and what you are entitled to?

Customer: replied 13 days ago.
It was just an agreement between ourselves, he agreed to pay me half his pension because I left him everything in the flat that I bought
Customer: replied 13 days ago.
No dont want a phone call

You have probably seen a pop-up offering you the chance of a telephone call at an extra cost.  It is up to you whether you have a telephone call or not but do bear in mind that a 15-30 minute telephone call covers an awful lot of ground and you can get an awful lot of information in that time.  So you can ignore it or go ahead or go ahead later.  It’s your choice.

Meanwhile, we can carry on on here.

As part of the divorce process, to draw a line under the finances you will need a financial order.

The courts will not get involved in marital finances unless divorce or legal separation proceedings have started.

Remember that the divorce itself is not that expensive, if you use solicitors, it is arguing over money and children which costs the big bucks.

And here is some reading on applying for a financial order.

https://www.lawteacher.net/cases/financial-matters-on-divorce.php

Which draws a line under the finances of the marriage and prevents either of you coming back to the other, in some years time, asking for more money if circumstances have changed (the lottery?).

That’s what happened here when the spouse popped out of the woodwork years after the divorce, when there was no financial order.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3634949/Victory-hippy-millionaire-s-unemployed-ex-wife-wins-500-000-share-fortune-money-decade-broke-up.html

and here

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1331925/Lottery-winner-Nigel-Page-pay-ex-wife-2m-left-10-years-ago.html

You can agree what you like between you, then it really is a case of putting the application into the court and the judge will rubberstamp the arrangements you have agreed.  Otherwise it’s a potentially expensive argument.

Here are some notes from the government

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/i-want-to-apply-for-a-financial-order-d190

On applying for a financial order

This is the form you need to start the process: https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/885814/form-a-eng.pdf

And how you go on from there depends on whether you agree with what is happening with the finance or whether you are going to have an argument.

If you can’t agree what you are doing between you, then you will end up in court and the court will decide.  There is no point in hanging around.

Thank you for letting me assist you with your legal question.  I am glad that I was able to help.

I am not certain whether that answers the question for you or not, but I am happy to answer any specific points arising from this.

It will be my pleasure to help you again either further with this or any future questions you have

Kind regards

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