I am sorry but I cannot give you good news. I'm afraid you are in difficulty here.
I have to tell you the truth.
I'm afraid that you cannot do that. If you have written something downthen the person to whom you wrote is not bound by confidentiality and can do with them as they wish.
Just because they are private chats doesn't mean that he cannot share them.
Of course that is not to say that he can commit other offences such as blackmail but that isn't quite what you are describing here.
If it is just that he is saying that he is going to act upon your private chats then I'm afraid he is free to do that
Im really sorry but that is the position.
I am sorry but I have to tell you the truth.
Do remember that I can only give you my opinion.
Another lawyer may have a different opinion. Litigation needs at least 2 parties and neither goes to court expecting to lose.
Nonetheless, one of them does, even though they have been told by their respective legal advisers that they have a good chance of success.
If there was a black-and-white answer to every legal problem there would be no need for anything to ever proceed to court.
The ultimate decision comes from a county court judge in a civil case or from the magistrate in a criminal case heard in the magistrates court or the jury in Crown Court.
Hopefully, I have answered your query in a way that is simple and easy to understand. If anything remains unclear, I will be more than happy to clarify it for you. In the meantime, thank you once again for using our services.