My personal view is they are threatening to put you in court for moral damages is to tell them to get lost this is in the UK because they are dreaming. We don’t have any such thing in the UK.
I had to google married by proxy because although I could understand what it was, I didn’t actually know that such a thing existed. It doesn’t exist in the UK.
In the majority of the developed world, such a marriage is not valid so it depends whether it is legal in Brazil or not.
If it’s not, then you are not married and if it is, then you are and it still applies and you are in the UK.
According to Google proxy marriages indeed valid in Brazil and has been since 1916 here is an article which touches on that:
So provided one of you is in the UK, then you can simply get divorced in the UK.
From 6 April 2022, in the UK we now have “no fault” divorce where there is no need to apportion blame.
Provided that at least one of the people wishing to get divorced lives in England, then getting divorced in England (& Wales) is infinitely a do-it-yourself job. (I am not familiar with the system in Scotland)
Save yourself a whole load of money: the government website have a do-it-yourself guide
Although you can agree finances between you, it doesn’t draw a line under it unless you have a financial order
And if have children under 18, and you cannot agree who they live with and who sees who and when, then you need a child arrangement order (which includes Specific Issue Orders:
To confirm that something can happen
and a Prohibited Steps Orders
To stop something happening
It doesn’t matter who divorces who or why, the financial issues are exactly the same. The court has not apportioned blame with regard to the division of marital finances for many years.
The only grounds for getting divorced used to be (all now changed of course)
1 Living apart from 2 years if they both agree.
2 living apart the 5 years regardless of consent.
5 Unreasonable behaviour.
Please note that a legal separation is not the first step or precursor to a divorce. It is virtually the same process but it doesn't dissolve the marriage. However it draws a line under the relationship formally. The difference between a legal separation and divorce is basically that you cannot get remarried again. The reason you would have a legal separation, rather than a divorce is you can get divorced, for religious reasons for example.
From 6 April, the divorce petition form D8 has changed and here it is:
It is the same form to dissolve a civil partnership.
You need to bear in mind that this process is brand-new for the time being and were not certain how it’s going to work.
The majority of the form is just filling in personal details and as they are the details that you would have to give to a solicitor, to be frank, you may as well complete the form yourself and save a whole load of money.
There is nothing difficult in the form and although it’s 20 pages, it is not crammed with questions. You can complete it in about 15 minutes.
At present to the court fee is GBP595.
The full list of court fees are here:
there is very little legal aid available now except in very few categories but if you are on benefits or low-income, you may get help with or not have to pay the fees. Details are here:
And the fee remission is referred to on page 19 of the form.
Be careful with the addresses. If you are not having fee remission goes to the Bury St Edmunds address along with the cheque, on the back page of the form.
If you are applying for fee remission goes to the Harlow address.
At least, that’s how I interpret page 20. It remains to be seen because that page is extremely vague
An application for a financial order goes to your local court.
Thank you for letting me assist you with your legal question. I am glad that I was able to help.
I am not certain whether that answers the question for you or not, but I am happy to answer any specific points arising from this.
It will be my pleasure to help you again either further with this or any future questions you have