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With a restraining order, can the victim legally make

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With a restraining order, can the victim legally make contact with the defendant?
JA: Was a restraining order issued? What were the basic terms?
Customer: Likely to be issued. So not sure of the terms yet. No violence involved.
JA: Is there ongoing abuse or harassment? Were the police called?
Customer: Likely to be charged with harassment - sent 4 emails to say I still loved her, would forgive her affair and would do anything to keep our family together. No aggression or nasty language.
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Customer: I damaged a piece of furniture while alone in the family house when I first found out about the affair. Is there a cost for this service btw? Thanks
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Customer: replied 9 days ago.
Initially arrested for damaging the furniture. Broke bail 4 times via email to say I still loved her etc. Then arrested again for breaking bail and taken to court. No previous domestic issues or trouble with the police. We’ve been together for 21 years and have 2 young children
Customer: replied 9 days ago.
The 4 emails have been classed as harassment but there was no negative content - simply that I loved her, would forgive her and wanted to keep our family together.

Thanks for your patience and enquiry. Unfortunately these emails even if not nasty would be in breach of your bail condition as well as the restraining order. The onus is on you not to make any contact at all. This would include sending emails.

The victim is also to comply with the no contact terms. If the victim reaches out to you however, there is a greater burden/onus on you not to respond. I do not think you are doing yourself or your family any favours by breaching the orders. These kinds of things usually have a ripple effect. For example, you may want to have contact with the children in the future if the relationship does not work out. The other party may use this to say you are unstable and may pose a risk to the children.

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Customer: replied 9 days ago.
Fully understood. Thank you.

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