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I am and always have been fascinated by penises. I am female.

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I am and always have been fascinated by penises. I am female. As a child I tried to look at friends penises and I often dream about them. I am otherwise healthy mentally and it doesn't affect my life but I have never spoken to anyone about this and wonder if I am a total freak. I have an adult son and a partner and I'm 44. Am I the only person with this weird problem?
Hello. I'm Dr. Phil, licensed and practicing internist. Excellent service is my goal.
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Why does this bother you so much?
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
It bothers me because I don't think its normal. I have abnormal wishes to look at my partner while he urinates and I don't want him to think I'm a weirdo.
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
Is someone there?
It is not weird Naomi.
It is very common and nothing to worry about
As long as you don't cross any boundaries like looking at your adult son's genitalia or eventual grandchildren, there is no concern
you are not a "weirdo"
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Customer: replied 3 years ago.
I wasn't like that with my son at all. I'm glad to hear it's common. I have worried all my life about this.
You have nothing to worry about Naomi.
I think it is just a "quirk" more than anything serious
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Customer: replied 3 years ago.
I thought you had given me your answer which is that it is just a quirk. I hope this is the case as I have always wondered if I am mad for being so interested in them and wish I wasn't.