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Dr. Chip, Board Certified Physician
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my wife wants another man to catch us having sex ie she mentioned

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my wife wants another man to catch us having sex ie she mentioned a hotel room service guy .. what does this fantasy mean ? she would not say what if anything she wants him to do after catching us ... this has alarmed me somewhat
Submitted: 2 years ago.
Category: Medical
Expert:  Dr. Chip replied 2 years ago.
Hi. Before I answer can you tell me how sexual relations between you and your wife have been?
Customer: replied 2 years ago.

there has been no problems ie married for 2o years but earlier her vagina used get so wet it squelched loudly recently she lies there and takes it but doesnt get so wet and i think she is masturbating also a lot

Expert:  Dr. Chip replied 2 years ago.
OK Ronan--we can continue after this but what is happening here is that the excitement of sex has left her--not your fault. It's a bit similar to the desire for a married woman to have an affair. It really isn't pathological as in a true mental disorder but it sounds as though she could use some sexual counseling from a clinical psychologist.